1: Why should I apply to be a Surrogate with
Simple Surrogacy?
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Simple Surrogacy makes the process of becoming a Surrogate as simple, and
enjoyable as possible for you and your intended parent(s). Simple Surrogacy LLC,
pays their Surrogate mothers on time. We work with the parents, Surrogate
mother, Egg Donor and their lawyers during the establishment of their contract
to create a fair and supportable arrangement between Surrogate mother and
intended parent. We will make sure your rights as a Surrogate are protected, and
insure your are happy with the process. 2: How should I determine my compensation?
▲ top We at Simple Surrogacy understand that while compensation is definitely not
your primary reason for becoming a Surrogate, you deserve to be well compensated
for your time and effort throughout the process. While your compensation is
entirely up to you, we can provide general guidelines to help you decide on your
fee. Average base compensation for a
first time Surrogate is $20,000. Average Base compensation for a
second time or more Surrogate starts at $25,000. You may determine that your fee should be higher or lower, depending on your
situation. Simple Surrogacy will help you determine your ideal compensation, and
insure your contract reflects your wishes.
In addition to base compensation, you will also receive allowances as set
forth in your contract, including but not limited to; maternity clothing
allowance, mock cycle fee, IUI fee, multiple fee, invasive procedure fee, bed
rest fee, and a monthly allowance to cover prenatal vitamins, travel expenses,
and any other monthly expenses that arise. 3: How do I receive my payments?
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Payments are made according to the contract and are automatically sent out 5
business days in advance of their payment due date. Simple Surrogacy, LLC was
started by Surrogate mothers and Egg Donors who understand the importance of
prompt payments when it comes to your own family and taking care of the child
growing within you. Reimbursements are paid out on the first of every month based on receipts
received for approved expenses submitted up to the 15th of the month. No
approval is ever needed for Emergency Room visits for emergencies. A coordinator
will work with you to make the process as easy for you as possible while
respecting the Intended Parents pocketbook. 4: What happens if I run out of monthly expense
money and still have expenses?
▲ top We don't want you to miss your OB/GYN appointment because you could not
afford to fill up your gas tank and we don't want you to stop taking your
prenatal vitamins because you did not have the cash to pay for them. If you need
an advance to pay for IVF transfer childcare expenses or travel expenses we will
do our best to make sure your needs are met. Call us and we will help you out.
We strongly prefer that we make one reimbursement check a month to you but we do
understand that the price of gas and other expenses that arise suddenly can
create a bad cash flow moment for a family. We have all been there. For large
expenses like airline tickets and motel/hotel stays we pay for that directly and
get reimbursement from the parents' escrow account. 5: Who will I talk with at Simple Surrogacy?
▲ top You will be assigned a contact at Simple Surrogacy LLC who will check in on
you regularly throughout the process. She will work out with you what is best
whether it is by phone, e-mail, mail, whatever works! You will have someone to
talk to about your worries, to console you when times are tough,, and to share
the joy of the first heartbeat. Yes, you will have your intended parent(s) to
share this with but you will have us as well. 6: Who decides what OB/GYN I see? ▲
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Most Surrogates stay working with the OB/GYN of their choice. Occasionally a
parent will want a different doctor or hospital because of the availability of
neonatal intensive care units (NICU's) or because they wish the delivery near
their home or in their state for the birth certificate and pre-birth legal
process. For surrogacies that cross state lines it can be equally probable that
the parents will come to the Surrogate mother's locale for the birth or that
they wish the Surrogate to give birth in their home state. We try to match
Surrogates to parents that are within driving distance but sometimes the perfect
match crosses the state line or requires an airline flight within state. 7: How does Matching work? ▲
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you with a parent that shares your pregnancy values. Relationships between
Surrogate mother and Intended Parent all vary. We make every effort to manage
expectations on both sides of the relationship and make the getting to know you
part of the process simple and relaxed. You are giving them the most wonderful
gift of their life. They are nervous about getting everything right and have
been through so much to get to this point. We try to match the needs of both the
Surrogate mother and the parent. Sometimes you will end up with a new set of
lifelong friends and sometimes it will be just a pleasant interlude and
occasionally it is something you just get through. You will know that for the
rest of your life you made a big difference in someone else's life and that the
child or children that you bring into the world are the most wanted children
possible that will be loved beyond measure. 8: How soon will I be matched? ▲
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Some Surrogates are matched within a few hours and some are a few weeks.
Sometimes, it can take longer. The time to match depends on personality,
location, rate charged, insurance coverage, willingness to terminate if there
are chromosomal defects (ie: Down Syndrome), willingness to reduce if there are
triplets or a higher order multiple. We do not see parents that would wish to
terminate for gender and would actively discourage that wish from a parent.
There is PGD testing that can be done before blastocyst transfer that can allow
for sex selection. When parents have arrived at surrogacy as a means for
completing their family they have a high respect for a baby's quality of life as
well as their very existence. If they can afford to they will probably over test
rather than under test to make sure that all is well with the pregnancy. The
look of shared joy between you and the Surrogate parent upon the first fetal
heartbeat will be one of the sweetest moments in your life. 9: How many tests will I take? ▲
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Surrogates can be tested for all range of things. It all varies by clinic
requirement. There are also FDA requirements for testing of Egg Donors and Sperm
donors whether they are the intended parent or a known or anonymous donor. Egg
Donors and Traditional Surrogates will be tested for a full range of STDs and
communicable diseases within 30 days of egg transfer to a Surrogate in an IVF
process. Sperm donors must be tested for STDs and communicable diseases within 7
days of the transfer to the Surrogate. This testing requirement came from the
FDA and was introduced in May of 2005 and is designed to protect the recipient
of foreign organs, in this case the Surrogate mother. For FET transfers of eggs
frozen before May of 2005 there will be wavers for the Surrogate mother to sign
since testing for STDs within 30 days for the Egg Donor and 7 days for the sperm
donor may not have been done. The Surrogate mother will also be tested for STDs
and communicable diseases and for life insurance establishment the Surrogate
will be tested for Nicotine (Cigarette use, etc.) and illegal drugs. The
intended parent also has the right to test at anytime during the pregnancy for
Nicotine or illegal drugs. Cigarette smoking can cause birth defects and
premature birth. 10: What happens if there is an emergency?
▲ top If there is a medical emergency please go to the ER or call 911. All
Surrogates in our program will be given the cell phone number of their
coordinator at Simple Surrogacy. Your coordinator is your support system. Please
feel free to call your coordinator day or night. We are here to ensure you are
taken care of no matter what time of the day or what the situation might be.